Sunday, 26 February 2012

FAQ's on Autism - 2


What are the characteristics of children suffering from Autism?
There are many common patterns of characteristics noticed in children with Autism. It is not necessary that all children suffering from Autism would exhibit exactly the same characteristics. I have divided this article in to two parts due to its length and extensive data. The first part is as follows:
Physical Characteristics: Children with autism are usually normal looking with very few or no physical signs indicating autism. Some of the children may have ear malformations and lateralization is under developed for the age and usually they are ambidextrous.
Behavioral Characteristics: There are major behavioral issues in many children with autism. Some of the known behavioral characteristics are:
Lack of social relatedness: A child with autism may not smile at parents or show any kind of affection (hugging, kissing, calling out, inclination to be picked up and taken in arms) or want for parents and other people around. Eye contact is very poorly developed and usually they look down or in the opposite direction while communicating. Ability to make friends is nearly absent till a very later age. I have encountered children with autism sitting for hours together but not a word of communication be it verbal or nonverbal. It often looks like other children do not exist for the autistic child. They seem to be self occupied and happy in their own world.
Play patterns: They show strong attachment to routines and a change in the routine is not welcomed. Play patters are not age appropriate and they resort to repetitive and isolated play rather than group or constructive play. For e.g. lining up objects, playing with one specific part of a toy rather than the whole, starring at objects, over attachment to one toy or insignificant object, rotating or twisting objects, inability to follow rules and boundaries of games, etc
Cognitive skills: many children with autism respond and relate more quickly to visual spatial skills than verbal language, for e.g. children with autism understand visual images (picture of a toilet) more than verbal commands (instructions to go to the toilet). One notable feature noticed in many children with autism is inability to understand feelings or emotions of others around them, thus making it difficult for them to engage in social reciprocation, for e.g. If you tell a autistic child that you have hurt your head he or she may laugh or have no response.
Language difficulties: there is a myth that autistic children do not speak because of lack of motivation or reluctance to speak. Many a times the child appears non verbal but often babbles words and reproduces them exactly the correct way confusing the parent about the ability to speak and this is often misinterpreted as lack of motivation to speak.  Language delay and deviance is one the most striking feature of autism. Autistic children have trouble putting words together and making a logical and coherent sentence even if they have excellent word vocabulary, for e.g. if you ask an autistic child “Did you have your breakfast?”, many of them would repeat the question “Did you have your breakfast?” instead of giving a “yes or no” answer.
Non-verbal language is also impaired but is usually better than verbal language. Echolalia is a prominent feature and autistic children often repeat words, phrases, sentences with or without context. For e.g.: “Bathroom, Bathroom Bathroom”. One of the cases that I handled had this peculiar behavior of picking up selective words and then reproducing them in the form of a poem. For e.g. if I said the school bell will ring in sometime, so the child said “Ding dong bell kitty in the well, ding dong bell”
Pronoun reversals like “You want the ice cream” instead of “I want the ice cream” are often seen. Articulation errors like “titu for tissue”, “twim for swim” etc are common. They often develop a different voice tone and rhythm to communicate and that distinguishes them from other children.
            I will continue with this article in my next write up FAQ’s on autism 2, part II.
Aditi Chaudhary

Thursday, 9 February 2012

This too shall pass..


This too shall pass….

At times I wonder what gives me the strength to battle the earth shaking situations in life and the one phrase that readily comes to my mind is “This too shall pass”...It fills up my disheartened heart with hope again. It gives me the strength to try each time I fall and bounce back harder and stronger. It gives me the conviction that I have battled bigger storms before and what lies ahead is a small mole in front of the mountain I have already faced, lived and conquered.
            As a child I wasn’t good in academics until I realized the importance of education. I was ridiculed by my teachers for my substandard grades and performance. With consistent poor performance I made up my mind to put in double the amount of effort and to surpass the mediocre standards laid for me. I faintly remember some “pandit” once told me that I won’t be able to even pass std.10 and that had shattered my self belief and confidence. I decided to change it and studied harder.
            I began to come in the top 10 rank in my class. It was unbelievable for many and I remember vividly my 7th grade geography teacher once told me its amazing to see Aditi pass with flying colors, it’s a 360’ turn!
            There was no stopping then and I determined to surpass all the standards laid for me and make a place for myself. Not only did I pass my tenth with 74.50%, I stood in the merit list throughout my college life and I graduated with merit list ranking in Mumbai! I secured A grade throughout my post graduation and completed my Masters with A grade again…
            When I look back in hindsight and ponder over what kept me going. I guess the answer is Self Belief. It was my belief in my self to achieve the impossible and work diligently towards my goal.
            Each time I face an adversity I summon up the courage to mount every obstacle with just four magical words, “this too shall pass”…
            These four words make me stand on my feet again, motivate me to try even harder when I feel I have no strength left, it helps me boost my courage, morale and determination to persevere and reinstates my belief that if I can live that then I can live this as well…
Two quotes by Mahatma Gandhiji are my favorite: “If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of the time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm.” And “In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place.”
Nothing is impossible when you are true to yourself, when you have loved with all your heart and have given all that you could. This magical phrase will help you stand up for yourself and fight every injustice no matter how hard it may seem…
To end I would quote, “Gear up the strength to face every hardship, battle every injustice and persevere in the most testing times because This too shall pass…” J
                                                                                               
Aditi Chaudhary